
+1 – Why most new year’s resolutions fail
I’ve been using this technique for decades,
it’s great.
Why do most new years’ resolutions fail?
(where people commit to behavioral changes to improve themself in some way for the new year)
Because they challenge themself with something too difficult (for their current ability and energy level).
The more difficult something is,
the more willpower, energy, determination,
grit, etc., required to meet the challenge every single day.
Faced with that constant resistance, most people give up after a week or two.
+2 – How the FITD (foot in the door) technique works
You commit, make a resolution to do something very easy to do every day,
(or every hour, every week, etc.).
Once you got your foot in the door, and it becomes a habit,
it becomes part of your lifestyle, part of you,
part of your personality.
And because you’re doing it every day,
you get better with more practice.
And as you get better, you naturally are stronger and want to challenge your self by pushing it a little farther.
I’ll give two examples of how I use this:

+3 – Example 1: meditate in sitting posture, 20 minutes a day minimum
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Everyday, no matter how busy I am, I resolve to do 4 sitting sessions,
of 5 minutes each.
20 minutes a day total.
I feel good when I sit, it’s always beneficial and conducive to spiritual growth,
and no matter how busy I am I don’t want to stop at 5 minutes.
It’s hard to meditate any less than 20 or 30 minutes at a time.
So I commit to 20 minutes, but I reality it’s extremely hard for me to meditate any less than 2 hours sitting a day,
no matter how busy.
+3.1 – Using Māra’s own best tactic against him
I’m using one of Māra’s (The Devil) greatest tactics against him!
How often has the Devil talked you into doing something you shouldn’t do with FITD?
Just one more piece of chocolate cake?
Just one more round of golf?
Just one more night of partying?
Just one more white lie?
+4 – Example 2: physical exercise
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+4.1 – I used to hate jogging
I used to hate jogging.
When I was as kid, I hated it with a passion,
they used to make us run several miles a week in school physical education classes.
It was miserable, pointless, painful.
Then in my 30’s, I needed to get better cardiovascular conditioning,
and realized jogging was probably the best way to meet that requirement,
being free, no equipment, etc.
+4.2 – 5 minutes a day: getting the foot in the door
So I resolved to do 5 minutes a day.
Hated every minute of it, but I committed to it everyday.
I got FITD (foot in the door).
It was only 5 minutes, and it was good for my health,
so worth the pain.
As my cardiovascular conditioning got stronger,
it got less physically painful, then eventually no pain at all,
just mentally boring.
But getting physically stronger, then it became easy to increase the time from 5 min.,
over the years, to 10-15 min.
a day effortlessly.
+4.3 – Pāḷi chanting while jogging: no pain, all gain
Then I figured out I can do pāḷi chanting while I was jogging,
and then there was no pain, and all gain.
No physical pain because I was strong in conditioned,
and all gain in mental Dhamma and pāḷi skills from chanting.
+4.4 – The same pleasure chemicals as jhāna (sukha indriya)
I used to hate jogging, 30 years later I don’t hate it at all,
in fact I love it.
I like it as much as I like Jhāna, because I can tap into the same pleasure chemicals (sukha indriya),
the endorphines, the runners high.
Sexual orgasm, eating delicious food,
doing yoga stretching at just the right amount of tension,
ASMR, frisson, athlete’s “flow”,
it’s all the same nervous system getting stimulated as sitting meditation jhāna.
What did you think, that the human body has a separate nervous
system with special set of pleasure chemicals that are only reserved for yogis who can enter jhāna?
That would be mighty expensive and inefficient for the body to do.
+5 – Similar models to FITD
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+5.1 – boiling frog effect

The idea: if you drop a frog into boiling water, it jumps out immediately.
But if you put it in cool water and slowly heat it,
the frog won’t notice the gradual change and will stay put until it’s too late.
It’s used as a metaphor for how people fail to react to harmful changes when they happen gradually rather than suddenly —
like slowly worsening working conditions, environmental decline,
or a relationship or situation deteriorating bit by bit until it’s hard to recognize how bad things have gotten.*
man relaxes in frog soup 🎬🔗
+5.2 – slippery slope
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The idea: It’s the claim that a relatively small first step
will inevitably lead to a chain of related events
culminating in some significant (usually negative) outcome.*
+§2.3 – inverted slippery slope

here we use the principle of slippery slope to our advantage,
by using our Dhamma ingenuity to create small changes
that cascade and exponentially grow into a large positive outcome.
+6 – habits, lifestyle, character
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Habits and Personality in the Pali Suttas
A reference summary of how the early Buddhist texts describe
the formation of habit and personality — from momentary intention
through to entrenched disposition — organized by sutta.
+6.1 – Pali Vocabulary for "Habit"
| Term | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Sīla | Virtue, moral conduct, precept — trained ethical behavior rather than neutral "habit" |
| Vāsanā | Habitual tendency, latent imprint left by repeated past action (more prominent in later/Abhidhamma texts) |
| Āciṇṇa | Habitual, customary — what one is accustomed to doing |
| Anusaya | Underlying tendency, latent disposition (deep-rooted patterns like greed or aversion) |
| Kamma | Not "habit" itself, but the mechanism: repeated intentional action conditions future tendency |
| Saṅkhāra | Mental formations/fabrications — the aggregate responsible for constructing habitual patterns |
+6.2 – Intention as the Seed of Habit
A trio of suttas stating the doctrinal core: what one intends,
plans, and obsesses over becomes an object for the persistence of consciousness.
With that as a basis, consciousness becomes established,
and there is renewed production of future existence.
This is the seed from which the entire habit/personality discussion grows — intention,
repeated, conditions what comes next.
SN 22.54 — Bīja Sutta ("The Seed")
Uses an explicit agricultural metaphor: consciousness with clinging as its fuel is like a seed; craving is the moisture.
Given these conditions, consciousness
"grows, increases, and matures" into a new state of being.
One of the clearest canonical images for how a repeated pattern takes root and becomes part of who someone is.
+6.3 – Kamma as the Mechanism
AN 6.63 — Nibbedhika Sutta
Defines kamma explicitly as cetanā (intention) itself,
and analyzes kamma by root — rooted in greed,
hatred, and delusion, or in their opposites.
The closest thing in the canon to an explicit theory of what shapes character over time.
AN 3.99 — Loṇaphala Sutta ("The Salt Crystal")
An important counterpoint to habit as fixed destiny.
A person who has developed body, virtue,
mind, and wisdom can dilute the effect of old habitual kamma
— like a crystal of salt dropped into a great river rather than a small cup of water.
Central text for thinking about habit change,
not just formation.
+6.4 – Underlying Tendencies (Closest to "Personality")
Lists the seven anusaya (underlying tendencies): sensual desire,
aversion, views, doubt, conceit, desire for existence,
and ignorance.
These function less like surface habits and more like settled
personality traits — the residue of repeated unexamined reaction.
SN 36 (Vedanā Saṃyutta) — scattered anusaya references
Ties underlying tendencies back to feeling: unexamined pleasant,
painful, or neutral feeling breeds the corresponding tendency (desire,
aversion, or ignorance) over time.
This is habit-formation through repeated,
unreflective reaction to feeling.
+6.5 – The Machinery Behind Habituation
SN 22.79 — Khajjaniya Sutta
Defines saṅkhāra (mental formations) by function: they
"construct the conditioned" — applied across form,
feeling, perception, and consciousness.
This is the abstract mechanics of why habituation happens at
all; saṅkhāra is the aggregate most responsible for patterning experience into recurring shapes.
+6.6 – Thought, Proliferation, and the Habitual Mind
MN 18 — Madhupiṇḍika Sutta ("The Honeyball")
The central sutta on papañca (conceptual proliferation).
Lays out the chain: contact → feeling → perception → thinking (vitakka) → papañca → the papañca-born concepts that then
"assail" a person with respect to past,
present, and future.
Mahākaccāna's exposition is the most detailed early analysis
of how perception spirals into elaboration and eventually conflict.
MN 19 — Dvedhāvitakka Sutta ("Two Kinds of Thought")
The Buddha's pre-awakening reflection: thoughts sort into those tending toward harm (sensual desire,
ill will, cruelty) and those tending toward welfare (renunciation,
non-ill-will, harmlessness).
Sustained attention to one category over the other shapes the
mind's long-term inclination — a functional description of how attentional habits form disposition,
without using the word vāsanā.
MN 20 — Vitakkasaṇṭhāna Sutta ("The Removal of Distracting Thoughts")
The practical counterpart to MN 18/19: five methods for stilling unwholesome vitakka once arisen — substitution,
examining its danger, distraction/ignoring,
tracing it to its source and calming it,
and forceful suppression as a last resort.
+6.7 – Preventing Bad Habits From Taking Root
MN 2 — Sabbāsava Sutta ("All the Taints")
A practical manual of seven methods for preventing āsava
(taints/outflows) from arising or increasing — sense restraint,
reflection before use of requisites,
endurance, and others.
Effectively a guide to not reinforcing habitual tendencies before they entrench.
MN 9 — Sammādiṭṭhi Sutta
Contains a section on the arising and cessation of āsava,
tying the taints back into the same dependent-origination structure used in SN 12.38.
The most direct canonical framework for habit management: prevent unskillful states not yet arisen,
abandon those that have arisen, cultivate skillful states not yet arisen,
and maintain those that have arisen.
+6.8 – Lifestyle and Everyday Conduct
MN 27 — Cūḷahatthipadopama Sutta
Lays out the "gradual training" (anupubbasikkhā) — starting
from basic ethical conduct and building step by step toward deeper practice.
The closest canonical model to structured habit-building.
DN 2 — Sāmaññaphala Sutta
The same gradual path in more detail,
from moral restraint through to meditative attainment.
DN 31 — Sigālovāda Sutta
"The layperson's code of discipline" — practical guidance on relationships,
work, and daily conduct.
AN 8.54 — Vyagghapajja Sutta (Dīghajāṇu Sutta)
Concrete lay-life advice: diligence in one's work,
protecting wealth, good company, and balanced livelihood as conditions for happiness in this life.
AN 5.41 — Ādiya Sutta
On the proper use of wealth earned righteously.
+6.9 – Suggested Reading Order
For tracing the arc from momentary intention to entrenched personality:
SN 12.38–40 (intention plants the seed) → SN 22.54 (the seed metaphor) → AN 6.63 (kamma-root theory) → AN 7.11/12 (underlying tendencies = personality) → AN 3.99 (mutability — habit is not destiny)
For the thought-proliferation side track:
MN 19 (sorting thoughts) → MN 18 (how thought becomes proliferation) → MN 20 (how to interrupt it)
Note: The Puggalapaññatti, a book of the Abhidhamma Piṭaka (not a sutta), systematically classifies persons by dominant habitual tendency — the closest thing Buddhism has to a formal personality typology, though it postdates the sutta layer.
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+11 – Conclusion
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All of this learning and progress happened because I had the discipline (doesn’t take much)
to commit to something very easy to do every day (or some other regular interval).
FITD.
Get your foot in the door.
As you get stronger,
you naturally will want to extend your limits and power.
It becomes habit,
lifestyle,
personality,
those powerful good things becomes part of you.
Whether it’s a mental Dhamma development,
or transforming unpleasant chores into powerful health and spiritual exercise,
it’s easy to do if you use Māra’s trick against him.
There’s a joy in seeing the bully get bullied,
Māra getting a taste of his own medicine.

+11.2 – Turnabout is fair play

+20 – post matter
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source: mental and physical Dhamma FITDness program 🔗 (notes on the Dhamma, 2025-01)
+20.1 – wikipedia article: Foot-in-the-door technique
FITD = foot in the door 🔗 technique
+20.11 – The Ladder of St. Augustine
Probably not intended by the author, but the poem has added dimension when you interpret ‘noble’ as ariya sacca.
In that light, it’s a nice inspirational poem praising viriya and right effort on the noble eightfold path.
The Ladder of St. Augustine
By Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
Saint Augustine! well hast thou said,
That of our vices we can frame
A ladder, if we will but tread
Beneath our feet each deed of shame!
All common things, each day’s events,
That with the hour begin and end,
Our pleasures and our discontents,
Are rounds by which we may ascend.
The low desire, the base design,
That makes another’s virtues less;
The revel of the ruddy wine,
And all occasions of excess;
The longing for ignoble things;
The strife for triumph more than truth;
The hardening of the heart, that brings
Irreverence for the dreams of youth;
All thoughts of ill; all evil deeds,
That have their root in thoughts of ill;
Whatever hinders or impedes
The action of the nobler will; —
All these must first be trampled down
Beneath our feet, if we would gain
In the bright fields of fair renown
The right of eminent domain.
We have not wings, we cannot soar;
But we have feet to scale and climb
By slow degrees, by more and more,
The cloudy summits of our time.
The mighty pyramids of stone
That wedge-like cleave the desert airs,
When nearer seen, and better known,
Are but gigantic flights of stairs.
The distant mountains, that uprear
Their solid bastions to the skies,
Are crossed by pathways, that appear
As we to higher levels rise.
The heights by great men reached and kept
Were not attained by sudden flight,
But they, while their companions slept,
Were toiling upward in the night.
Standing on what too long we bore
With shoulders bent and downcast eyes,
We may discern — unseen before —
A path to higher destinies,
Nor deem the irrevocable Past
As wholly wasted, wholly vain,
If, rising on its wrecks, at last
To something nobler we attain.
source: The Ladder of St. Augustine 🔗 (notes on the Dhamma, 2024-09)
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